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Dudes, she is.....fuck man. Just spoke at an AA conference for the first time. Told my story in an hour slot....pretty sweet. On the shitty side though, the wife was seen today at the Waffle House with a wife beater clad new boyfriend. She chose that over going to church to see the kids. She is telling everyone I am stealing them from her and won't offer her any more visitation. Problem is that I have. Four times. She turned that time down three times and the other only took an extra 45 minutes because she had to be somewhere at 3:30 on a Saturday. I also am apparently stalking her, harassing her and going to kill her according to my neighbors who she has spoke with. She has pressed bullshit charges of assault which I now have to deal with...sigh....and still won't know anything about the decision for me to move to WNY until October. Today was rough. Just wanted to give the fuck up but I'm standing, sober and being the father that these kids need. I'm just tired. Grumble grumble grumble.

Author:	Displaced Fan [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 5:49 pm ]
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Hey guys. Long story short here. Wife went down for training....found a boyfriend.....I found out...he and I dumped her......She attempted suicide....I got custody of the kids.....divorce and separation junk in the works. Trying very hard to get myself and the kids back to WNY. Just wanted to drop an FYI. My one year sobriety mark is in two weeks.

Author:	Stuuuuuuu [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 6:09 pm ]
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Damn man, sorry to hear about most of this besides the sobriety thing of course. Hang in there.

Author:	BlueandYellow [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 6:10 pm ]
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Wow, tough shit man... Sorry to hear that. Keep on going dude.

Author:	Wozniak [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 8:05 pm ]
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oh wow, i hope everything gets better and good job staying sober during all that, it would have been to easy to relapse.

Author:	Crosscheck [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 8:51 pm ]
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Glad to hear you got custody...that's a tough thing for most dads. The rest of it?....well damn. Hang in there.

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Author:	AudSabres [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 9:30 pm ]
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Holy crap, dude.. That’s some heavy shit. :S Hoping for the best to come of this situation for you and the kids; also, congrats on the upcoming 1yr sobriety. To be able to stick to it (especially during this time) is a huge achievement. Keep your chin up, man.

Author:	Ryan911T [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 11:50 pm ]
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Wow, that's really awful; sorry to hear that. Keep up the sobriety too, one year is a huge accomplishment.

Author:	Vanek_Fanatic_26 [ Wed Jul 03, 2013 10:19 am ]
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Been going through a bit of this myself, actually. Not the same position. It's between the parents and such, but it's still not fun. Hang in there.

Author:	sabretoothpick [ Thu Jul 04, 2013 6:48 pm ]
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That's rough. Congrats on staying sober!

Author:	YankeeInRaleigh [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 2:00 pm ]
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Damn dude, that is some bullshit. Best of luck.

Author:	ironyisadeadscene [ Sun Jul 07, 2013 12:55 pm ]
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thats uh.. pretty rough.

Author:	Nuthatch [ Sun Jul 07, 2013 4:03 pm ]
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WNY is a good place to raise kids, especially if you already have family there. You've got a tough road ahead of you but your kids are lucky to have you.

Author:	SABRESAllTheWay [ Sun Jul 28, 2013 4:59 pm ]
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DO what you need to do bud. We got things fine 'n dandy here.

Author:	Displaced Fan [ Sun Jul 28, 2013 10:26 pm ]
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Dudes, she is.....fuck man. Just spoke at an AA conference for the first time. Told my story in an hour slot....pretty sweet. On the shitty side though, the wife was seen today at the Waffle House with a wife beater clad new boyfriend. She chose that over going to church to see the kids. She is telling everyone I am stealing them from her and won't offer her any more visitation. Problem is that I have. Four times. She turned that time down three times and the other only took an extra 45 minutes because she had to be somewhere at 3:30 on a Saturday. I also am apparently stalking her, harassing her and going to kill her according to my neighbors who she has spoke with. She has pressed bullshit charges of assault which I now have to deal with...sigh....and still won't know anything about the decision for me to move to WNY until October. Today was rough. Just wanted to give the fuck up but I'm standing, sober and being the father that these kids need. I'm just tired. Grumble grumble grumble.

Author:	Displaced Fan [ Mon Jul 29, 2013 9:31 am ]
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Crosscheck wrote: man... You can't get physically away from her until Oct? Nope. Now if I was a woman and had been a stay at home mom for nine years, military husband cheated on me during a deployment, tried to kill himself, cut off my bank card and was the sole care taker of three kids, any judge in the world would tell me to run home to my family where I had support. You add a dick to the parent who does the parenting and all of a sudden it's a whole different deal. I have to sit here until October wen we meet to figure it all out. Complete shit.

Author:	Displaced Fan [ Tue Jul 30, 2013 7:49 pm ]
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Well i have lost ten pounds but all in all I'm better off. I'm scared since I don't know what the future holds and I haven't worked in nine years but I can't do much about anything right now. All I can do is show up every day and be the father I need to be. Just wish the Sabres would stop fucking sucking so i had at least SOMETHING to be happy about hahahaha!

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Author:	Crosscheck [ Sun Jul 28, 2013 10:56 pm ]
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man... You can't get physically away from her until Oct?

Author:	BlueandYellow [ Mon Jul 29, 2013 1:17 am ]
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Displaced Fan wrote: Dudes, she is.....fuck man. Just spoke at an AA conference for the first time. Told my story in an hour slot....pretty sweet. On the shitty side though, the wife was seen today at the Waffle House with a wife beater clad new boyfriend. She chose that over going to church to see the kids. She is telling everyone I am stealing them from her and won't offer her any more visitation. Problem is that I have. Four times. She turned that time down three times and the other only took an extra 45 minutes because she had to be somewhere at 3:30 on a Saturday. I also am apparently stalking her, harassing her and going to kill her according to my neighbors who she has spoke with. She has pressed bullshit charges of assault which I now have to deal with...sigh....and still won't know anything about the decision for me to move to WNY until October. Today was rough. Just wanted to give the fuck up but I'm standing, sober and being the father that these kids need. I'm just tired. Grumble grumble grumble. Tough shit bro. Hang in there.

Author:	Skyline_BNR34 [ Tue Jul 30, 2013 1:16 am ]
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What a bitch. Her, that is.

Author:	AudSabres [ Tue Jul 30, 2013 4:52 pm ]
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Damn, dude.. gatta love the legal system, eh? Hopefully the time passes quickly for you and the kids. I can't imagine the stress this has been adding in your lives. Sending good vibes your way from the great white north!