nnyfan wrote:
See, this is where I'm weird. (actually, there are many ways in which I'm weird...but anyway) I'm Episcopalian. I'm extreeeeemly proud to be and this is why. Recently, the residing Bishop passed an ordinance (I know I'm getting my verbage wrong here, but you know what I mean) making it okay for same-sex couples to be blessed in the Episcopal church. This is where my weird, yet basic and easy-to-understand religious view come into mind. I believe that God is the ultimate judge and jury of what is right and wrong in regards to the choices we make in life and how we live our lives. Its not up to us to decide, its God's job. We may not agree, but we shouldn't pass judgement. Our job, if you're a Christian, is to treat people the way Jesus would.
The people I know that are gay have been through enough! Most have had that awkward stage where they started to have feelings for the girls instead of the boys (and vice versa)...then the painful, awkward confessionals to parents and others as they dropped the bomb that they are gay...maybe even worse conversations with a spouse if they opted to ignore their feelings and hope they would go away, getting married and maybe having children. They have been through the wringer on a journey to self acceptance. Finally, they have a relationship where they feel fulfilled and complete, should they not find peace and acceptance into God's family? Should we turn them away because they choose to live differently or should we treat them the way Jesus would and accept them and their commitment to Christ, leaving God to be the judge. I couldn't in good conscience turn anyone away from church or our church family.
As my priest said one day, "We don't have to like everyone or everything they do, but we must love everyone the way Jesus would." Unless they're a Kennedy...then all bets are off!! Unless they play for the Sabres. I'm confusing myself...I need more coffee....
CV...I LOVE your avatar. I can't wait for that harry potter movie to come out!!
God's job is to pass judgement, not ours. Far too often, Christians are going too far to play God and pass judgment, and exhibiting the ultimate sin of PRIDE by attempting to know the will of God. All that does is completely shy non-believers away from experiencing the love of Christ.
I don't know if this is the appropriate place for this rant, but that's not going to stop me. You see it even on these boards, all the time. Christianity is
not the extremists who hold the signs saying 'God hates fags'. Christianity is not a closed-minded group who hides behind their Bibles. It is a hard, long road where you have to be extremely open minded, and open hearted, and running towards a goal bigger than what this world has to offer.
As a board member, I do take offense to the constant swindling of my religion, and my choices, because that's the same persecution that as a Christian I face in the world every day. By persecuting and mocking Jesus over and over, you can chalk that up to you constantly berating my father over and over. No one takes nicely to that, and I don't either.
We can constantly make fun of religions for being 'crazy', and 'how could they EVER believe in some unseen force that the Church has just manipulated for control over the people!? I'm so sick of them forcing their opinions on me!', or we can see the absolute ignorant error in that. I don't recall ever trying to convert an atheist, so where is your battle for conversion to your non-belief stemming from? Why do people so wholeheartedly want to bring down something that gives people a sense of peace? Do you ever wonder where that sense of peace comes from, or tried to experience it in any of your tirades? It's much easier to make an opinion rather than trying to take steps to understand the one you oppose. I was an atheist, that didn't really work out.
I'm not going to apologize, or try and gloss over what has been said.
I'm a fan of love for everyone. Republicans and democrats, straights and gays, Christians and atheists. It's because of that love, that I've been able to find a perfect glove fit in my relationship with Jesus Christ. I just wish people could stop persecuting the Church and see that they're spreading around the same closed mindedness that they're so opposed to. It has really gotten old around here.