Reading over my post describing what I find attractive about Sarah Vowell, it sounds like I should just date a munchkin.

Yup, Iron and Wine! Sam Beam is an absolute musical genius, and I loves the hippies.

Look at this beard, Eileen. LOOK AT IT.

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mechaphil

for the record, i dont date for looks, but seeing how i dont know many celebs, so i have to base it on looks.

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What can we even say to make them reasonable picks though Phil? We don't know any of them personally and all we have are interviews and movies about them. Interviews are always never, or normally never how they truly are, and movies they are always a character and not themselves.

All we have on which celeb is who would you want to bang the most for who to date.

Even in real life, you start to like someone, you never fall for their personality at first, you fall for their looks first, then personality, unless you were friends before you met, but you meet some hot chick somewhere, you are attracted to her by lust first and foremost.

The movie "The Ugly Truth" is true in that sense, guys look for a girl with a nice body and then likes her, gets to know them and decides if they love them or not. You don't fall for a personality, you fall for looks, their personality just keeps you there.

That is a huge reason why some of the biggest douche bags get a girl for at least a month or longer, they look decent enough and are nice at first, then they simply treat them like utter shit and the girl gets fed up with them and leaves.

The only time you can fall for personality is if you are close to them as the friend way, because it happens that some of the closest friends are perfect matches for each other and it just takes time for it to develop in both of them, and they were then attracted by personality instead of looks.

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I'm too tired and emotionally spent to argue this point, but no, you're wrong. You're quite the expert on romance, aren't ya.

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mechaphil

Not at all Phil, but unless you know a person beforehand, you go for looks first, then the personality.

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OK, I'm telling you right now, that you're making a mass generalization and they never hold up under duress.

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mechaphil

Well everyone is different then also.

But I bet most people will go for the hotter person with shit attitude and personality before the go for the decent person with a personality to die for.

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Yeah right... I don't know about you guys, but when I meet an attractive guy and I find that he's a jerk, he suddenly becomes less physically attractive to me. And the same goes for when I meet a guy who at first I didn't think was that amazingly attractive, when I get to know them and I see that they're a good person, I suddenly find them more attractive.

Good looking people with bad personalities might be fun to mess around with and have fun with, but when you want to settle down with someone or get in a "serious" relationship, looks alone will only get you so far.

Unless they're both awful people, then maybe they will settle down together.

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"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Hockey Night in Buffalo

That's what I meant Fly, for a serious relationship it's all about personality and how you two are compatible.

But at my age, all anyone cares about it looks for the most part anyways and only to get hurt by that douche bag who won't treat her right and all he wants is some poontang and gets it because she wants to see through their douchebaggery to looks.

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lol, speaking from experience?

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"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Hockey Night in Buffalo

Maybe if you're young and immature. Am I old enough to say that? Ah fuck it, I'll just go with it.

The only people that are going to put up with a hot person with a shit attitude are the shallow assholes just looking for a fuck and the emotionally pathetic. I would bet that virtually everyone on this board would go after a decent looking chick with a better personality over a hot chick with a crappy one. There are so many people that don't give a crap about looks at all beyond the morbidly obese.

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Every guy dating a girl you want is a douchebag

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Lets say I don't have anyone lining up at my door to date me. I'll admit, I've only had two girlfriends in my life and those were in 10th grade. So being this nice guy and not an utter douche, I don't got a girl.

At least it keeps me not broke and I can buy things for me and not for her.

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The difference is that people you consider douchebags are confident and actively express interest in girls. Nice guys question themselves and are timid about showing a girl that they're interested.

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Katie Price Jordan, from what I remember in interviews, appears dumb as a rock. And she looked way better pre-boob job. She had like C-cups for christs sake!

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Proud LGBTQQ Individual

what is this, tear mikes opinions apart night?

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Good enough for me, but most of them are douchenozzles anyways.

I guess that is true for me also.

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I didn't have an issue with anything you said.

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