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Author:  CriminallyVu1gar [ Wed May 12, 2010 5:46 pm ]
Post subject:  CV gets Laid Off. Is at Peace with it.
So I got laid off today, but I'm not panicking.

I get paid for this week and next since our paychecks were delayed a week from the beginning.
I get paid for the 3+ weeks of vacation I had accrued. So I'm okay for at least a month.


The reasoning was questionable at best, and while I don't agree with the justifications they gave, I do agree that I was not a good fit for B&L. Everyone here knows that I have been looking to find a job elsewhere for some time.

I don't want to delve too far into the justification for my termination. There were definitely some growing pains as I transitioned into a new career, however I don't want to shift any blame off of myself. I am realistic, and in everything there is fault on both sides. Ultimately I feel that the company was looking for a particular mold of person, and I never felt like I fit, nor did I ever try to fit that mold. This contributed to a certain lack of comfort from the beginning of my employment, to nervousness and a lack of confidence in my work, and to others perception of my work throughout the past two years.




The short story:
CV Laid off
CV fine with this
CV will be okay financially
Author:  Wozniak [ Wed May 12, 2010 5:49 pm ]
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i dont know whether to say sorry or congratulations...

congratorry? sorratulations?
Author:  Wozniak [ Wed May 12, 2010 5:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: CV gets Laid Off. Is at Peace with it.
i dont know whether to say sorry or congratulations...

congratorry? sorratulations?
Author:  CriminallyVu1gar [ Wed May 12, 2010 6:05 pm ]
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Yeah, it's all good. I mean I'm a little scared honestly, but I was completely prepared for this and staring it in the face anyways.
Author:  fly as hale [ Wed May 12, 2010 6:45 pm ]
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Good that you're keeping your head up high...this will open up some new opportunities for you, maybe you'll find your niche in the career world.
Author:  Stuuuuuuu [ Wed May 12, 2010 7:32 pm ]
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Sorry to hear you're now unemployed. Sounds like you didn't see yourself there long term though, so in a way that is a benefit. People can end up trapped in jobs they hate, and at least you avoided that in this case.

But I also know how stressful being unemployed can be, and how hard it can be to not take it personally when you're having trouble finding a job. So I sympathize with any negative emotions it generates.

But I feel like you'll eventually find a job where they'll appreciate you for who you are. We all like you around here and we're not complete idiots.
Author:  CriminallyVu1gar [ Wed May 12, 2010 8:23 pm ]
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Stuuuuuuu wrote:
Sorry to hear you're now unemployed. Sounds like you didn't see yourself there long term though, so in a way that is a benefit. People can end up trapped in jobs they hate, and at least you avoided that in this case.

But I also know how stressful being unemployed can be, and how hard it can be to not take it personally when you're having trouble finding a job. So I sympathize with any negative emotions it generates.

But I feel like you'll eventually find a job where they'll appreciate you for who you are. We all like you around here and we're not complete idiots.



Thank you :D

Yeah, just trying to keep it in perspective be realistic, and enjoy some of the positive aspects. Not waking up at 6:45 tomorrow for example.
Author:  Wozniak [ Wed May 12, 2010 8:29 pm ]
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i know im probably going to seem like an ass for this and i apologize if i offend you, but this just seemed to perfect.




in all honesty though, its good that you have a good outlook on the situation. it will serve you well.
Author:  CriminallyVu1gar [ Wed May 12, 2010 8:36 pm ]
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Wozniak wrote:
i know im probably going to seem like an ass for this and i apologize if i offend you, but this just seemed to perfect.




in all honesty though, its good that you have a good outlook on the situation. it will serve you well.



Too bad mine's completed, been queried and I've gotten a request to see more chapters :P
Author:  Wozniak [ Wed May 12, 2010 8:40 pm ]
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CriminallyVu1gar wrote:
Wozniak wrote:
i know im probably going to seem like an ass for this and i apologize if i offend you, but this just seemed to perfect.




in all honesty though, its good that you have a good outlook on the situation. it will serve you well.



Too bad mine's completed, been queried and I've gotten a request to see more chapters :P

touche :clap:
Author:  Los9090 [ Wed May 12, 2010 10:04 pm ]
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"got a compelling protaganist?"
Love that quote
Author:  Sabresfansince1980 [ Wed May 12, 2010 10:32 pm ]
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Maybe you shouldn't have spent so much work time on the junkie boards.

On the other hand, being a Sabres fan does come first. Make sure your next employer understands this.
Author:  CriminallyVu1gar [ Wed May 12, 2010 10:46 pm ]
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Sabresfansince1980 wrote:
Maybe you shouldn't have spent so much work time on the junkie boards.

On the other hand, being a Sabres fan does come first. Make sure your next employer understands this.


Egh, when I had work, I was never online. When I didn't I was. I think that was true for any employee. One of the problems was I got to a point where I was consistently slow because I had:

1 project stalled that reached into the federal government with two different agencies disagreed with each other
1 project stalled because the municipality didn't want to authorize funds
1 project stalled because we hadn't obtained the necessary easements in order to design the sewer main, and the municipality elected a new supervisor that wasn't entirely on board
1 project in review by the client so I can't really do anything

and no one giving me more work when I asked for it.
Author:  BlueandYellow [ Wed May 12, 2010 10:51 pm ]
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I thought the title was

"CV gets laid."
Author:  CriminallyVu1gar [ Wed May 12, 2010 10:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: CV gets Laid Off. Is at Peace with it.
BlueandYellow wrote:
I thought the title was

"CV gets laid."


That's next week's installment.
Author:  Skyline_BNR34 [ Wed May 12, 2010 11:27 pm ]
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CriminallyVu1gar wrote:
BlueandYellow wrote:
I thought the title was

"CV gets laid."


That's next week's installment.

Doubt it. :lol:
Author:  patkane88 [ Wed May 12, 2010 11:27 pm ]
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BlueandYellow wrote:
I thought the title was

"CV gets laid."


I love how you always change the subjects of every topic, its a gift :clap: ;)
Author:  backthatSASSup [ Thu May 13, 2010 1:17 pm ]
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Hopefully this will bring you other opportunities that will make you happy.

I'm sorta confused. Is it laid off or fired? Fired sounds harsh, though.
Author:  Sabresfansince1980 [ Thu May 13, 2010 1:31 pm ]
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My buddy got fired from his job 18 months ago over something stupid. It's a funny story but I won't bother with it. He got hired a few weeks later doing almost the same thing with a bigger, better company, and now he has to suffer sitting in a press box at the Super Bowl every year while putting high-light clips together. That was a real tough turn of events...oh and I forgot that he makes more now.

I get free Super Bowl garb out of the deal too.
Author:  CriminallyVu1gar [ Thu May 13, 2010 1:40 pm ]
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backthatSASSup wrote:
Hopefully this will bring you other opportunities that will make you happy.

I'm sorta confused. Is it laid off or fired? Fired sounds harsh, though.


Laid off. I don't quite understand the difference, just that I can collect unemployment pretty much asap.
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