NYIntensity wrote:
Okay, so I want to take on a project that might seem a little daunting, but I want to do it anyways. I want to build my dining room table, and I want it to be butcher block. Anyone here done anything similar? I'm expecting to make it between 4-8" thick...I know that's going to be heavy, but it's okay. I want it to be something that ends up staying in my family

I don't know what kind of wood you are thinking of using, but I'd recommend at least hard maple and most likely red or white oak. Black walnut is hard and beautiful, but can be tough to work with without much experience. if you are seriously going to put money, time, and effort into it, there are a few tools you really need. cabinetmaking (the most advanced form of carpentry) isn't a lazy sunday task.
-a quality cabinetmaking square (starrett or better)
-tape measure
-a GOOD tablesaw, craftsman or (preferably) better.
-a good router, ryobi or better
-good carbide blades
-a drill press
-you will find a biscuit joiner (or, if you have the bank, a domino joiner) one of the best tools you can get
-tons of clamps
-wood glue (not elmers, real stuff)
-3d orbital sander (something as light duty as a skil will do, that's what i have)
-blueprinting and dimensioning skills (if you need help, i am willing to help you with that)
-steel wool (00)
-different grades of sandpaper...i'd say 180, 220, and 320
-stain and clear coat (i'd stay away from the combined stuff)
if you want it to stay in your family for years, i'd recommend beating the planed lumber with chains. it gives it a really weathered and beaten look that has actually grown quite popular as far as furniture goes. i think it's nice looking, but i haven't done anything quite that big before.
it's also probably a good idea (and much cheaper, too) if you use like a poplar or white pine and cover it with the type of wood you want to be on the outside. if you do this, black cherry and black walnut become more feasible options. it also makes the table much lighter (but it will still be heavy) so you can move it if need be.
do you want glass insets? or drawers? or hinged corners for places to stash the remotes and tvguides?
if you really have money, i'd recommend buying things from rockler.com. Festool is the best you can get and is a cabinetmaker's best friend. like i said, the pictures are my resume, pm me if you want some advice or help.