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This isn't terminology, but I thought of another phrase I hate! haha
"Well, that's your opinion." After someone says something that is objectively wrong. And it's something that I have researched. In full. And could write a book about. And I tell them that. And I tell the person all the facts. And I talk for about 20-30 minutes straight, typically, and that's giving a really shortened version. IT IS NOT AN OPINION. IT IS OBJECTIVE FACT THAT I CAN BACK UP WITH OFFICIAL DOCUMENTS IF YOU WANT ME TO. This is not something that is a matter of opinion; it is concrete and factual.
I have to edit here... I know what is being done with the speaking of that phrase; it's obvious. People can go on believing whatever they want, as long as in their minds it is in the realm of opinion. It's so intellectually dishonest that I could choke the next person who says it to me.
I have never heard the party that's in the right utter that phrase in that context. When it comes to politics or what-have-you, things that truly are matters of opinion, sure (well, there is no wrong or right party in that kind of discussion), but not when it comes to what I'm referring to.
Same thing with, "I don't care," spoken at the same point in the, uh, discussion. Um. Yes, you do care. You cared enough to make a comment in the first place. You cared enough to make a judgment call. Don't tell me you suddenly don't care because I just showed you that you are basing what you believe off a bunch of lies, and you think I'll stop embarrassing you. Shouldn't have formed an opinion you're confident enough to voice in front of others without researching first. Oops.
I have lost all respect for certain people based on those two statements.
I just don't understand their value systems, at all. I'm of the mind that... Well, I'm frequently held up by people who know me as being an encyclopedia of sorts; I was always called an encyclopedia when I was younger because I knew something about everything and would educate the people around me because it was a natural impulse that, in hindsight, probably made me look like a know-it-all, but that wasn't my intent at all. I still do regularly correct people, or just say random things that are connected to something at hand. Anyway, that has led me, if asked a question I don't know the answer to, to look it up later and find the answer and then tell the person who asked it like a week later what it is, long after s/he's stopped caring.... but I still care. I don't know. I'm incredibly particular about making sure I really know things, so I just don't understand when people are comfortable knowing nothing but what their friends tell them or what their TV or newspaper tells them, and they didn't sit around reading encyclopedias and medical textbooks when they were kids, and they don't particularly care about education, and if they do "research," ever, it takes about an hour or less and they only read what they agree with at the start... It's so weird and foreign to me.
_________________ Miles to go before I sleep
"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation." -Khalil Gibran
Last edited by acrossthelines on Sun Mar 21, 2010 3:47 am, edited 2 times in total.
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