Wozniak wrote:
acrossthelines wrote:
The next person who asks me, "Why?" when I say I've never had a boyfriend is going to be met with a, "Because," because I'm tired of answering, "Because I want to be," and having the person not comprehend it at all and ask more questions. I know it's only going to get worse as I go through my 20's. Whatever. It's all right for a man to be single after the age of 18, but a woman? OH NO! OLD MAID! Shut up and stop asking me questions.
obligatory smart ass response:
so why havent you had a boyfriend?

lol Every time anybody says something like that, you know somebody's gonna come out and be annoying on purpose, making it not annoying.

I don't tell my friends ANYTHING that annoys me, outside of people being absolutely stupid and ignorant about homeschooling, because half of them were at some point as well so it's fun to caricature ourselves together.
Rant time because I seriously love ranting: I roll my eyes so hard when I hear people worried about socialization with homeschooled kids. Guess what? When I was a kid, all I had were my brothers, my cousins, and the neighbor kids, whom I knew my entire life anyway so they were basically cousins, too, and we were all homeschooled, and I turned out FINE and so have all the rest. I don't think it's any different than kids having the same group of friends. My family wasn't typical with that, anyway. Most join all sorts of community organizations to have their kids meet other kids; mine didn't, but that's not the norm for homeschooled families. As far as the education goes? I learned to read at two (and haven't stopped; thank you to my father) and could have started first grade at three, but my parents waited till I was five so I'd only be a year ahead of other kids my age and fit in better with other kids at my grade level (ended up getting held back and repeating ninth grade when I entered school because the principal said I was too young for tenth, whatever), and if I'd stayed homeschooled through high school, I would have graduated college at seventeen or eighteen because I would have taken college classes all throughout high school. I'm positive I could have gotten A's at fourteen in every college class I've taken so far. Homeschooled kids outperform kids schooled both in the public system and in private schools in every single category. Colleges prefer them, especially Ivy League schools, because they do so well. I hate the education system, anyway. To me it seems they teach what to think rather than how to think, and I hate that. I also hate the system of testing; that doesn't teach a thing, just teaches kids how to memorize things for a day and then forget them.
I just remember being a kid and having people ask me these questions that I knew were absolutely stupid and ignorant even as a six-year-old. Every time homeschooling pops up in some media report it's basically one misnomer after another, and they take themselves so seriously, referring to kids as simply not going to school rather than homeschooled, like it's inferior when in reality it's by far the opposite as far as education goes, and you get people all concerned about socialization and THE WEIRDNESS OMG and it's like give me a break. I swear people forget what it's like to be a child and how children actually learn the basic things in life; it does not happen in school. They don't understand kids at all. Also, in New York it's kind of annoying to homeschool. I had to take so many standardized tests every year to make sure I was keepin' up. Got 99th percentile in every category on every last one I ever took, which continued on into high school with the ones you have to take there. And all the paperwork my parents had to fill out... It's as bad as California, but New York's basically the most regulated state in general lol.
ive notices the passion for ranting.
anyway, having never been homeschooled, i cant really comment on the experience of it but it seems to be a solid way of going out it. i can comment on the current school system. it is dumb, i agree with you on their test taking methods. i took a human evolution class that, while fun, was a bitch to learn because of the scientific names and anatomical differences between species. while i normally do try to learn and retain the material being taught, this class (and consequently my psych class (another pain in the ass)) i was forced to do the "know for a day and forget" method. thats not to say that i dont remember some of the information but i was able to do well in the class using the previously mentioned method.
its a shame.