I can't bring myself to be ridiculous because I like this mini-rant.
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By now, even if my friends don't get me, they can at least appreciate and/or respect that what I do with myself is just how I roll, and they leave me be. Most guys that I've dated don't get it at all and don't care to. They expect me to be emotional and touchy-feely and to cater to their emotional needs (though, I find that none of them feel the need to reciprocate), but that's just not me at all. But if you're not like that, they don't want to bother with you at all. I've found that they all want basically the same kind of girl, and that's definitely NOT that I am. I know that not all guys are like that, and I long to find one that will find the rationality, the logic, and the abstract part of me attractive, but in my experience, guys like that are few and far between.
This is from a post ranting on another forum. AMEN to the whole thing. Argh. They say that that behavior in girls annoys them, but they always go back to it. Actions > words. This is part of the reason I don't believe I will ever find someone to have children with. The ones I would want don't want me. Nothing different from every other area of life, but it's just a tiring thing to realize that, yeah, it follows there, too. I'm tired of being lonely. Not just there, either... You know how much it sucks not relating to other girls? HA. And having close guy friends is not cool because I don't want to develop relationships like that only to have them end abruptly when they are married. OK yeah anyway.
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