3 season tent:
beginner:http://www.backcountry.com/big-agnes-burn-ridge-outfitter-2-tent-2-person-3-season
veteran:http://www.backcountry.com/big-agnes-lynx-pass-tent-3-person-3-season
when i buy a tent, i look for ventilation (because we have a lot of rain in ny), set up height, size of fly, taped seams, freestanding, type of bottoms, etc. to be honest, your best bet is buying a tent from wal mart or something, like
http://www.walmart.com/ip/Coleman-Max-6 ... t/13848689. what you'll want is something with a decent fly (coverage) taped seams (welded works, too) and a tub bottom, because then you won't need a footprint to protect your tent.
sleeping bag:
beginner: i'd recommend just a basic coleman or something from wal mart. the rating system is always flawed on a bag, so look for something around a 30 degree rating. that means you'll be comfortable around 45-60 degrees which is most common in NY at night.
veteran:
http://www.backcountry.com/stoic-somnus ... egree-downget something comfortable, because it takes a while to get used to a sleeping bag, especially staying on a pad.
sleeping pad:
beginner:http://www.rei.com/product/810386/therm-a-rest-ridgerest-solite-sleeping-pad
veteran:http://www.rei.com/product/778148/rei-trekker-175-self-inflating-pad
no two ways about it, you're going to fucking hate sleeping on a pad for the first while. the point of them is not to be comfortable, but to keep you warm (up off the ground). Cots are also an option.
http://www.walmart.com/ip/Ozark-Trail-Camp-Cot/14089868stoves:
beginner:
http://www.backcountry.com/coleman-perf ... rner-stoveveteran:
http://www.backcountry.com/msr-whisperl ... fuel-stovestoves are something else. you can cook over a fire too, but like we've talked about before, there are a ton of places and times of the year where fires aren't allowed. or it could be raining, in which case these burners will be your best friend. the whisperlite is my favorite stove, and you literally can cook anything on it, when you have enough practice. the coleman propane stove is nice because that's all it is- just a stovetop. and it's easy to get fuel and 1 bottle will last a weekend. with the MSR, you need white gas (unless you get the international model) and special fuel bottles.
water purification:
beginner:http://www.prepare-now.com/845.html
veteran:http://www.backcountry.com/msr-sweetwater-purifier-system
i use pure aqua sometimes. i always carry the iodine crystal bottle in my fishing gear and day packs. my sweetwater system is spectacular, lightweight, and field-strippable. i love them both. but it's good to have two when you backpack. you can always boil water, too..5-10 minutes at a rolling boil will kill everything. beaver fever (giardia) is not something to mess with. i had it, it sucks.
lighting:
beginner:
http://www.backcountry.com/e-gear-weekender-lanternveteran:
http://www.backcountry.com/petzl-tikka-plus-2-headlampheadlamps revolutionized the outdoors. lamps are a thing of the past for a real recreational camper. they're more for base camps. i have both a headlamp and a backpacking flashlight with me.
daypacks:
beginner: the thing you carried your books in during college or highschool.
veteran:
http://www.backcountry.com/osprey-packs ... -1300cu-incan't beat a good pack, and you'll be sorry if you don't have a decent one. i like a daypack with some sort of a rigid frame and shape so it fits better, then i can hike longer more comfortably. preferably, one that also is compatible with a camelback or something would be best.
food for car camping is easy. other things to consider are: medkit, rope, drybags (small and medium) a good knife/multitool, small box of tinder, clif bars, nalgene water bottles (i don't like siig), tent patch kit, and other things i'm forgetting without going through my pack.