PuckSniperPensel wrote:
backthatSASSup wrote:
Stuuuuuuu wrote:
Cheating is really, really fucking common. Were they married? If not, it's something that will probably happen to us all sooner or later, hell, it probably even happens in most marriages. Anyone saying "the bitch deserved it" ought to make it through a 20 or 30 year relationship without cheating before they have a damn thing to say if you ask me.
Cheating doesn't have to be physical either. Even getting emotionally involved with someone else can be considered cheating. And some view that as worse than just having sex with someone.
I don't necessarily agree with that. We have no power over our emotions, but we have plenty of power over our actions. Attraction is human nature. There's no way to fight that.
But doesn't that kind of prove my point that having an emotional affair with someone can be worse than having a physical relationship? One could look at a person and think, hmm, she/he would be a good fuck and it wouldn't be cheating unless one actually went through with it. Now imagine that instead of sex, one begins to develop feelings for someone else and actually has an emotionally intimate relationship.
My point is that one doesn't have to get physical with someone else to be cheating on his/her significant other. Making oneself emotionally available to someone else is cheating, too.