Sabresfansince1980 wrote:
I probably answered some of this in my last post (probably before you posted). I know how the process should work - wait until the criminal part is done and go from there. I'm not about to criticize a pissed off spouse that isn't just in grief, but wants some fucking answers - yesterday.
If Mrs. Stack knew specifics, then she might (might) have some legal responsibility. You could say the same for any number of car crash scenarios. Should the victim of a deadly crash wait until grieving time is over before filing suit against the guilty driver's family/estate? That's a personal issue that I wouldn't judge someone over.
As for innocent until proven guilty - that's not what's going on here. Filing a lawsuit in civil court is the same as being charged with a criminal offense. There's no assumption of guilt/innocence either way, it's just a notice that you'll have a court date to explain your side.
Mrs. Hunter is probably jumping the gun, I've already agreed, but to turn around and jump to conclusions about her and toss out "frivolous" and "bitch" when she just had her husband killed by a fucked-in-the-head domestic terrorist is a bit much. No, it's way over the top.
Okay okay, I see your point now.
Perhaps calling her a bitch is over the top.
This is a terrible tragedy, and all parties are obviously dealing with a great bit of sorrow.
She may not be a bitch, but there is certainly a lack of empathy on her part.
Where that stems from, who exactly knows.
Either way, I still don't think I'd be throwing a lawsuit at anybody until I knew all the facts.