NYIntensity wrote:
Hell, for a long time, I was shy about buying condoms. Those countries embrace sexuality a little better than we do. I think he's got some good points, and even if you think he's an idiot, you have to agree that what we've got....ain't workin...
To be honest - I could care less how many abortions we have. Ever read 'Freakonomics'? I haven't, but a friend and I were having a discussion about abortion, and he brought up the book (he started it a few days/weeks ago). In a nutshell, it talks about how the crime drop in the 90's was always linked to a better economy. That's a pretty good argument. Freakonomics tells you to look back 30 years, when abortions became legal. The dregs of society that didn't want the responsibility of kids now had an option, instead of potentially increasing the criminal population. 30 years later, their potential spawn would have been in their criminal primes. In my mind, it makes sense.
The argument against abortion, in my mind, is stupid. You mean to tell me that you're going to force somebody that doesn't want to have a baby to carry it through the pregnancy, and then bear the burden and responsibility of raising it for the next 18 years? Good luck NOT raising a criminal. You can go on and on about how "if you can't accept the risk...", but that goes against human nature. Accept that as fact, and realign your focus.
If there was a shortage of children to be adopted, and parents were lining up outside foster care facilities just chomping at the bit, it would be a different story.
Kids/Teens find out quickly that sex is fun. I don't think you can hold that from kids. Kids make dumb decisions, and pregnancy is one result. If parents stopped trying to ban their kids from sex, instead urging the risks and how its not a smart decision at a young age and first and foremost preeching protection, things would be helped a lot. I hate to say it but IMO there are too many parents that suck at parenting and their children suffer due to lack of guidance. Abortions allow these mistakes to be fixed, but yes the system is abused by those who like it "bareback" and unfortunately i don't think that can be changed other than parental guidance, and please refer to the last couple sentences regarding that.
Moral of any story should be that, life is all about decisions, and nobody makes the right ones 24/7, and there's nothing anyone can really do about other peoples stupid decisions. This country should be preeching to parents and putting money towards proper guidance to children. I HATE, and i repeat HATE that public education is suffering lately, because now the kids suffer in the long term due to the fact that there is less proper guidance out there that you get in public schools.
As far as the health care debate, I am glad that the people that make >200K a year are footing the bill and that couples making >250K are also footing the bill. Why? Because they can afford it with little to no problems. I don't think there's one person who's happy about this bill in its entirety, and as US citizens there's nothing wrong with feeling how you do about it. You can't possibly know all the information there is in this bill and a lot of people are misinformed about it, causing people to make bold statements about it. In fact they just don't know any better, and I can't blame them for it either. I don't agree with everything everyone has said and I don't think my mind is going to be easily changed, but I do know that I now have to live with this, and now I have to start making different decisions in life to accommodate with the changes, and I hope that the consequences of those actions don't hurt me or my family/friends that much either.
Sorry for the storybook, but I really wanted to share my opinions here.